The Judas Kiss
Growing Beyond Betrayal
Betrayal is an unhappy and sometimes traumatic event, experienced by the majority of the population. Some have successfully overcome it and others are still on the overcoming journey. And others are stuck in the anger stage. Even for those who have overcome it, it often leaves a deep scar on the psyche resulting in the individual becoming a better or bitter person.
The Foreword of most books are written by one major supporter of the author. We have chosen to have many readers from many walks of life in US and Canada, who have reviewed the manuscript to share their comments. You will likely find at least one reviewer you can relate to.
John Brownlee has dedicated his life and career to understanding and supporting those who have experienced emotional and interpersonal suffering and challenges in primary relationships. His work, The Judas Kiss, regarding betrayal, is a thoughtful attempt to comprehend how betrayal occurs and its lasting effects. Beyond the impact of betrayal John's intent is to provide the reader with support and guidance toward understanding and meaningful recovery.
Randall W. Phillips, PhD, LMFT
AAMFT Clinical Fellow
Memphis TN
John's book was especially helpful to me for giving me the insight and tools to confront my deep-seated anger and hurt. It was especially helpful to understand my betrayer is not unique; his character is like other con men. John nailed so many personality characteristics I gasped while reading. John truly understands. I know now I will never get closure with my betrayer as he does not feel remorseful; only honest individuals do. John's points to ponder helped me explore my true feelings and awareness. Thanks to this book, I am on the road to forgiveness.
Lori Whitbey, Content Marketer, Nashville, TN
As I read through the table of contents, my interest was piqued to read the chapters. My favorite chapter was “Overcoming the Pain” because of the examples and strategies you shared with us - the readers. And this line particularly got my attention: “You did not have control over who deceived you or how you were deceived, rejected, or betrayed. You do have control over how you are going to respond and live. This thought is one I share with my clients on a regular basis. And, I didn’t have a “least favorite” chapter. I thought the entire book was well worth the read.
Dr. Sylvia Ann Trapuzzuno
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Therapy in the Park, Palm Desert, CA